Five tools that take what's in the book and put it on a screen you can use today. No login. No payment. Your work persists on your device.
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Each is short, specific, and answerable in one sitting. The 90-day tracker stays with you for the long haul; the rest are designed to give you something concrete in the next few minutes.
Four questions, asked one at a time, that separate marriage problems from life problems and surface where the loop is coming from. Saves automatically.
Take the step → Tool 2 · Decision treeA short readiness check that tells you whether discernment counseling, couples therapy, or individual therapy is the right next professional. With a directory link to find one near you.
Take the step → Tool 3 · TrackerChoose your branch (structured repair, structured separation trial, or structured exit) and walk it week by week. Print-friendly. Persists locally.
Take the step → Tool 4 · BibliographyEvery book and study cited inside the manuscript, grouped by what you came here to figure out. Source links and (when available) a way to buy.
Take the step → Tool 5 · DirectoryVetted directory links for EFT therapists (ICEEFT), Gottman-certified therapists, Certified Divorce Financial Analysts (FINRA), and discernment counseling practitioners.
Take the step →The tools above are the practice. The book is the theory: fourteen chapters of patient reasoning grounded in discernment counseling, Gottman research, and attachment science. Available in Kindle and (soon) paperback.
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